Teenage analysis
You must have heard that Adolescence is the age of
getting rebellious. And you may have hundreds of examples and experiences in
this context. I am here to make you view things as a third person, neither as a
guardian nor as an adolescent.
Adolescence is the transition age between childhood and
adulthood, that means it is an age where a human being is neither a child nor
an adult. Hence “confusion” for both the groups starts from the definition
itself. Human psychology is such that we think we are going through the biggest
downfall of emotions and nobody else is aware of it. This is for every human
being, as far as I have seen and joining this statement only with adolescents
(which is their major instinct as referred by many psychologists) is something
unrealistic. You may differ with me at many points.
Moving on to what we call “closeness of adolescents with
peers” and not with the family. Taking an example, Will you share your
anxiety and problems with someone who don’t pay attention to it or don’t see
them as problems at all? No. Then why not finding a shoulder which you think
understands you and solve your queries and problems. You will definitely seek
such shoulder. Same is the case with our adolescents. The thing is, we
sometimes fail to be those shoulders for them to cry or to share everything.
Not ignoring the concerns of guardians regarding welfare of their ward, it is
important to cope with this situation involving different tactics which appear
as a game to your child. Difficult? Not really, if it brings your son/daughter
closer to you.
A teenager is a “New Beginner” in my words. And as we
all know, defeats bring you on your knees if you are not strong enough. Hence a
teenager may sometimes develop a “negative attitude” towards life. You
just have to understand the series of new fears, desires, competitions he is
going through. And if you’ll not shoe concern or co-operate you kid may develop
something called “Lying to escape consequences from wrongdoing”. Simple deal. Isn’t it?
Problems of this age are many. Some are developed by the
adolescent himself and some are because of mishandling.
“Handle your teenager with care”
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